Daily Check-ins

Check in for change

Different patterns start
with different presses.

Morning check-in

Set your intention or focus for the day.

Pick one or two buttons you want to lean on today. Hold them quietly — no need to do anything yet. When the moment comes, press from your buttons page.

My buttons
Choose from all 9 buttons →
Button reflections

How have you pressed differently today?

No open presses right now. Press a button when you feel a pattern rising — reflections will land here.

Evening check-in

Which button(s) did I actually press?

No judgment. Just notice. The noticing shifts your patterns.

Today's presses

No presses logged today yet. That's information too.

My patterns
See my patterns →
Reflection log

Every reflection you've saved.

No reflections yet. Press a button, then reflect — they'll collect here.

Daily reminders

Gentle nudges, on your schedule.

Phone Screen Reminder

Downloadable button reminder for your phone.

Set this image as your phone lock screen and turn every glance at your phone into a small moment of awareness.

The Button Method is built on the idea that lasting change comes from small, repeated choices. Seeing this reminder throughout the day helps keep Press Differently, Respond Differently front of mind when you're navigating relationships, work, parenting, stress, habits, or life's transitions.

You may check your phone dozens of times a day. Let each glance be a gentle prompt to pause, notice the pattern you're in, and choose a different button when needed.

Because change doesn't happen all at once. It happens one button press at a time.

The Button Method lock screen reminder
Download
Save lock screen image →
Opens in a new tab. On iPhone, press and hold the image, then tap “Save to Photos.” Close that tab to return here.